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In life, what kind of person is lovable and popular The answer is a person with high emotional intelligence. This is because they are comfortable to be with. A person with high emotional intelligence will not make others feel uncomfortable even when protecting his own interests, and he will try to take care of the feelings of as many people as possible. Confucius said: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." This means don't impose on others what you don't need or don't want to accept. By empathizing with each other and considering issues from the other person's perspective, harmonious interpersonal relationships can often be maintained. This is the power of emotional intelligence. In today's society, emotional intelligence is an important survival ability and skill for a person. It is a way to explore emotional potential and exercise skills.Emotional ability is one of the most critical factors that affects all aspects of life and the direction of life. Jack Ma once said: Success depends on emotional intelligence, and success depends on IQ. Successful people often have high emotional intelligence. Without emotional intelligence, no one will like you. Someone summed up this formula: Success = 20% IQ + 80% EQ. It can be seen that on the road to success, EQ plays a more important role than IQ. IQ determines how highly educated you can be and what scientific research achievements you can have; and EQ determines your ability to deal with people and survive in society. Many psychologists believe that emotional intelligence shows people's comprehensive qualities and reflects people's deep qualities. Therefore, it can help people correctly understand themselves, manage themselves, and motivate themselves. It can also help people handle interpersonal relationships well and gain good connections. , and can also inspire people to keep making progress and work hard when they encounter ups and downs. People with high emotional intelligence can navigate in a complicated society with ease and gain their own success and happiness. Now, lets take a closer look at why people with high emotional intelligence are more likely to be popular. People with high emotional intelligence, even if they have negative emotions in their hearts, can control them and will not vent them out at will and hurt others; People with high emotional intelligence are very sunny, like a little sun, they shine wherever they go; People with high emotional intelligence People with high emotional intelligence will think about others, worry about others' needs, pay attention to the needs of others, and meet the emotional needs of others; people with high emotional intelligence will not judge someone casually, let alone talk about someone behind their back; People with high emotional intelligence always save face for the other party and will not let the other party get off the stage; people with high emotional intelligence always make people feel comfortable when talking and doing things; people with high emotional intelligence often try to stand on diffe