original You Who Are Not Defined: Your Own Life Does Need To Be Defined

So what about MBTI You can't define a personality

Use your own definition of yourself to replace others' definition of you

Written to you who are exhausted by your family and workplace and are unable to do so

Written to you who encounter the workplace ceiling and you can see it at a glance

Written you who are trapped by perfectionist, highly sensitive and pleasing personality

In our life experiences from childhood to adulthood, there are so ma famous biographies, famous quotes and exemplary models around us urge us to grow and demand our excellence. Society is defining you, time is defining you, and even height, weight, constellation blood type, purple horoscope, and MBTI are defining you. However, no matter how detailed the classification is, it cannot define every one of you.

This progressive generation has given us ma dividends, but when it breaks the framework of the old generation, it has also created new labels. We will never be able to conm to the aesthetics of each generation, nor can we always go with the flow. Only by ging the courage and undefined determination can we become ourselves shining at all times

Use leverage to leverage your strength and become a confident you

Face the voice in your heart and become a selfconsistent you

Energetic, unite knowledge and action, and become a more comtable you

　　

This is a growth book written by Gao Lin, a female leadership expert, parttime coach, to women in the 20s, 30s, and 40s. Based on more than 20 years of experience in supervisors working in China's top 500 companies and years of online and offline communication, emotional intelligence and leadership training, the author helps women to be proactive in the workplace, upgrade their wealth and influence, and break through traditional gender inertia and workplace ceiling; clarify various emotional relationships and requirements in life, get out of emotional internal friction, and learn to recharge themselves; in the second half of life, use investment thinking to plan a new direction in life, bid farewell to linear development, and face the second curve, vigorously reverse the "unable" thinking innovation.

You in your twenties: If you want to understand yourself, then read more, have more boyfriends and girlfriends, take risks and try bravely. The more things you bump into, the more you understand yourself. No matter what, you won't be in your twenties again.

You in your thirties: If you dont want to be the majority, then follow the path that a few people take do the difficult and right things. As long as you dont give up on yourself, no one will give up on you.

You in your ties: Please stop saying "I am ty" sadly, but say proudly, "I am ty." Be ready to fight, do something big, go to his workplace ceiling, and dont let age define you

There are some truths that if you knew earlier, you might not be more successful, but you will definitely live more calmly.

A real woman, using real examples,

I discuss the real questions with you and hope to help you find your own answer.

"As a coach, my job is to establish an equal partnership with the coached person through indepth dialogue, help the coach find his own answer, and thus change. There are some experiences in this book, but more are real examplesof students and coached persons who have been processed through mocking. The world is complex, and personal experiences do not have much replicability. Only real and diverse examples can be convincing." Gao Lin

No matter how valuable the golden sentence is, it is not as good as saying the thoughtful words in your heart

You can only make money and enjoy the fun that money brings to you by establishing a healthy relationship with money.

Behind all the conflicts in interpersonal relationships is actually a struggle power.

Recruiting people likes may bring power, but power will definitely make you like.

If you are not a bystander of Game of Thrones, you will not become a victim, and you must be a brave participant.

Dont show off a meaningless sense of existence, and dont fight unprepared battles.

Being able to regard selfmockery as a prerequisite humor is to accept one's imperfection.

If a society suppresses women's choices, it will also deprive men of their choices.

The mentality of "I'm not good enough" cannot make you better, nor can you make others better.

Shame and fear may make you progress a while, but not a lifetime.

Selfesteem is whether we like ourselves in our eyes.

Confidence is not whether you can do it, but whether you think you can do it.

Establish a correct sense of boundaries, express dissatisfaction appropriately, and reject others gracefully.

The more you dont expect others to like you, the more likely others are to like you.

It is neither possible nor desirable to quit emotions, but it is necessary to quit emotional.

Only people who can live well without getting married are suitable marriage. Being loved gives you strength, and being loved gives you courage. Only by becoming your patron saint first can you protect other people in your life.